Monday, April 23, 2007

Aw, Nuts

I can't believe it, but dad did not pass the swallow test. Aye carumba. We are all disappointed. His speech therapist said his swallow is better than last time, but she's still not comfortable letting him eat yet. Because he literally did not use those muscles for four months, it takes time for them to gain strength. So we wait another 3-4 weeks and he'll try for a fourth time.

Sure, it's a big fat bummer, but you know what? There's too many good things going on for a failed swallow test to get us down (just read yesterday's post). Pops feels the same way. So what if he waits another month before he can eat or drink....maybe that's just more of God's perfect timing. With all the exciting commotion that the next few weeks promises, maybe tube feeding will just be easier for all of us. It's all good.

But now I'm starting to think dad really is avoiding mom's cooking. Hmmm....it's certainly possible....

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

From a medical standpoint , with your dad's pneumonia bouts, he doesn't need any more of that. So waiting is a good plan. Better safe than sorry.... He's still moving forward!

Anonymous said...

It brings so much joy to witness Gods love in your lives, what an awe inspiring testimony to our lord.
love to all

Anonymous said...

Father,
continue to fortify the Bohrman family with strength, patience, perseverence and especially peace as they continue to trust YOU more. What a glorious day of celebration with the weather and a chance to 'break out' of the hospital for a few hours! GOD, thank YOU for a glimpse of YOUR assurance for a future and a hope Jer 29:11 Continue to strengthen Pat's throat muscles so that he can pass the swallow test soon. Amen
Love<><
Jen & Jake

Anonymous said...

The swallow thing is a bummer, but the rest is just plain cool! I haven't seen the blog since just before Easter and what an incredible difference a couple of weeks can make!!!!!

I can remember the anxiety and doubt that came with making a trip home for the first time. I can even remember the first time we "boweled". It's a lot like riding a bike (or driving a cool new chair). All of a sudden things become routine and it's hard to believe you ever doubted yourself. To say you're all inspiring isn't enough, but it's the best word I have right now. Keep up the hard work - all of you.

Julie

Anonymous said...

Hey Bohrman's

Well you have several thousand people in Kansas City praying for you now! I pray that God continues to grant you all the strength you need through your journey. God Bless you all!

Yvette Gray
(aka "Evie May")
yovetteg@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

You are right, Amy...There is too much good news to be down about not passing the swallow test. I guess God thinks he's not ready for the Kiltie - more for me to eat. I keepp praying everyday "the studly quad" keep having progress.

"The sexy quad"

Anonymous said...

Father, God, thank you for giving Pat and his family a wonderful day to celebrate freedom from hospital-stuff. Thank you for providing perfect weather in which to celebrate. I know that You will help Pat swallow when the time is right. Thank you for the miracles you have performed and are performing in Pat. Thank you Pat and all the Borhmans for how you teach us to trust God's plan. If we were engineering our own lives, I can only imagine the chaos. May God continue to grant us all patience, hope and courage. Love, Treva

Anonymous said...

Bohrman Family
Know that the Ordway Family continues to keep Pat and all of you in prayer! We too are grateful to God that he has given you all such strength.

Karin

Ray said...

Pat,
I'm glad you haven't lost your sense of humor. "Finally a reason to be glad I'm a quad." I miss the good old days setting up at Countryside with you. You are in our prayers, my friend.
God bless,
Ray

Anonymous said...

Dear Bohrmans,
I am so inspired by your ability and effort to adjust around these mountains of changes. I read this blog always and pray, pray, pray for you all. Sometimes I have a good cry and other times and huge belly laugh. All in all you are a testament to just how precious and delicate life can be and you show me daily how to appreciate each milisecond with hope and gratitude. One day I'm gonna show up for a big hug. Til then I send a few.
Much love, Lisa A in CA

Anonymous said...

Dear Bohrman family,
We have been praying for you every week faithfully, and continue to be encouraged by good news!

Eastside Covenant Church
Tucson, AZ

Anonymous said...

I received this devotional today via email and thought it would bless. The Bohrman Family are ALL singing a new and beautiful song before the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

"Written by Rev. Ras Robinson
April 28, 2007 Unique. You are uniquely and wonderfully made. Many are the gifts I have placed within you. You are a designer package so special. The song you sing to Me is a song of love and praise. I listen from My portal with anticipation for your next song. Other voices are wonderful but your song has never been sung. No on can sing it but you. Know that I wait patiently. And when you sing, my Father's heart pounds with joy and pride in My child. So, sing your song. I am listening. Imagine yourself in My concert hall and that We are seated and are waiting with baited breath. Sing My child. Unique.

Psalms 139:14 "I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well."

Love to all, linda lentz